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Lu Curates a lifestyle blog by Melissa LuVisi

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Lu Curates is lifestyle blog written by Melissa LuVisi centered around art, style and travel. Life is how you curate it!

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6 Ways to Become Your Own Best Friend

March 31, 2015 Melissa LuVisi
Be your own best friend

In the spirit of celebrating ourselves and finding peace in solitude, I put together a list of 6 things that always bring me back to myself.

1.     Take a Walk Alone

When I was 18 I hated being alone. I lived in a house with three dudes, in the middle of nowhere and platonically shared a room with one of them. Our house became a default hangout for my high school’s graduating class of 2005 since all our friends were in college or still living at home. During that time, I became acutely aware of how uncomfortable I was being alone. Distraught over the realization of this dependency, I made it my mission to become comfortable in my own company. A standard that still serves me well today. I started by taking many walks alone and writing poetry in the local graveyards. I was an angst-y teenager, what can I say!

It is my belief that if you do something enough times it becomes a habit. Before I knew it,  18 year old Melissa discovered she actually enjoyed being alone.

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Finding Time Alone

March 26, 2015 Melissa LuVisi

A large part of curating your own life is taking care of #1. As I get older, I find taking time for myself is a learned skill. And not one I’m very good at. If I don’t, I become a grouchy, stressed out disorganized mess.  As a woman, I think it’s easy for us to lose ourselves in our routines and relationships. I can’t imagine how hard it is to find solitude when you have a family!

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One last piece on Miami

March 20, 2015 Melissa LuVisi
Miami Man

Miami is full of Cuban influences. Cuban culture is vibrant in color, design, music and dancing. When I think of Cuba I am reminded of old world films that take place in 40s; the recounted travels of American authors like Hemingway and Gellhorn.

I unexpectedly discovered I missed the sound of the Spanish while living in Pittsburgh. I heard Spanish everywhere growing-up in California and having worked in restaurants...

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Monday-spiration

March 16, 2015 Melissa LuVisi

This morning was rough. I know Mondays generally are but today I accidentally sent an email to a potential client riddled with typos.  Have you ever made work related mistakes like this? What were they and how did you handle them? 

Needless to say, I am in some desperate need for spirited inspiration. 

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Links, Lust, N'at

March 9, 2015 Melissa LuVisi
bella notte bedding

The above bedding is so romantic.

I’m finally preparing to move into a new place which means I can’t help but spy design pieces like Ikeas Ilse Crawford collaboration (head over here for shop-able housewares).

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